Just in case you missed it, we have so lost our compass for honor and value that we teach women to give up their virginity to keep a man and then teach them to lie about it to keep their lives.
There are so many things that get me steamed up about this, but it is not the double standard; it is the blatant double loss of a woman’s honor. A woman’s worth is not in her hymen. It is in her heart and God-breathed design. Will we ever learn that God has a plan for us? Plans for hope and not harm. And if we blow it, if we go our own way instead of His, we don’t groan and fake it. We don’t deny we have sacrificed our honor; we fall on His grace. His blood is what we need. Not some fake ridiculous gadget.